As if...the girl is to blame,
As if... she's the one that owed you something, or did something to you. (Even if she's a side chic that knew about you, she owes you nothing, she simply doesn't respect you, but he sure doesn't either...but yeah, as women we should unite, yada yada yada :::insert all that other stuff you'd prefer I say instead:::)
It's an almost automatic reaction to bash the new girl, somehow making her the one to blame for everything. When most of the time we know nothing about the girl, except the bits and pieces we find out through social media stalking, or old school word of mouth.
As if... we all entered some contest and she won and you're discrediting her for her "achievement". As if...you're doing it to boost your own self esteem, because let's face it, you didn't "win", you weren't "picked"... She was.
So why do we do it? Trust me, I do it all the time, until I catch myself. Until I realize it's never a contest, and 95% of the time, the "prize" ain't worth a nickle. But we do it anyway. We continuously nitpick the next girl, call her a downgrade, jot down all the ways you're better,
As if... that makes a difference..
As if...you're reassuring yourself that you were the better pick.
As if... you were being drafted for the NBA & she got the team & contract you wanted.
Reality is... SHE DIDN'T...
this wasn't your season, or your team, or your contract. Maybe she offered something to the team you didn't... NO, matter of fact is that she offered something to the team that you didn't. Not that she's better, just different...
Stop questioning yourself, stop trying to figure it out. There's no one to blame, not you, not her, not him... It's a question that has no answer. It's something that can not be explained.
So stop blaming her.
xoxo
signs the girl that is to blame, was to blame, will be to blame, has been blamed or blaming...
HER...
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