Tuesday, January 2, 2018

ready or not...it's here...the new year...

This beginning wasn't feeling quite right & I figured out why... I hadn't taken the time to truly genuinely reflect on 2017 & my ambitions/dreams/goals/motivators for 2018. It came & went the big NYE party & now as I shake the vacation autopilot mode off... It's time to take the wheel & get things moving. Set out to accomplish the things I fell short on, in 2017 & continue to progress in the areas I excelled.



What can I say about 2017... It was a good one. It had it's fair share of highs & lows, but for the most part it goes down as one in which all the growth that took place did not stem from a negative place, but more so purely internal organic growth. I lost some, I gained some & that holds true for jobs, men, friends & weight. In all cases me learning more about myself.

But let's do a run down of lessons learned...


  • If you find yourself in a similar situation from the past, it's indeed the universe testing you... Doing the same exact thing will leave you in the same exact place. Even if in a different light.
  • When you're too scared to jump, often the universe will push you & you'll land exactly where you're meant to. 
  • Some people will try to convince you that what you know & see, isn't exactly what IS. Don't let them, a spade's a spade no matter what it tries to paint itself as. 
  • Trust the process, you'll eventually figure out what you want, you'll wake up one day knowing. Literally 
  • You never know where you'll find comfort. 
  • New people can be amazing...
  • Cutting people & situations off is absolutely necessary for growth
  • Friendships will shift forms, that doesn't change it's purity 
  • Being in your 30's does in fact change absolutely everything... at least how you view it 
  • Working hard might feel like a lot, but it pays off in the long run
  • Getting to your goals later than anticipated, does not change that amazing feeling once you actually do. 
  • Boys will forever suck, you just have to decide which one gets your time. 
& finally...give yourself some damn credit every once in a while... you're doing good baby girl... and you don't need anyone to say it for you or to you....

As for 2018, I'm a bit disoriented but I'm ready... I know what I want & I know what I've worked towards & what I will work towards... 

so ready or not...it's here...

Happy New Year!!!

xoxo
Signs the girl kinda ready for 2018

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