Equally Obssesed

Does it exist? The ability for 2 people to be mutually & equally obsessed with each other.
I know mutually appreciating each other & loving each other truly exist.
But what about that head over heals type of love? That I'll do anything to see you happy type of love? That I want to see you every second like we're 15 type of love?
Is that love only seen in fairy tales & movies?
Or is that love always simply mostly one sided?

(CLEARY, It's obvious that type of love also fades with time & eventually you develop different levels of love & even have to relearn how to love someone. It will never stay on that level forever, BUT...close enough should, right?)

Some of you may be sitting here saying "yes, it does exist" because you feel that... BUT does your partner feel the same? You can only hope for it, you can only truly wish that you're both giving 100%.

Is it cynical to think that this doesn't exist... yeah, probably. But after observing enough people & experiencing enough things, you start to draw life conclusions. & this is one of mine. I've concluded that relationships are made up of so much more than simple emotions, that in life you have to choose if you want to be obsessed or be obsessed over. That you have to make a selection based on so much more than that passive feeling.

This post is in form of questions, because the truth is, I'm not sure what to believe anymore. I'm not sure what is genuine anymore. People tend to flaunt and show one thing, while feeling something completely different. The front of utter obsession is only represented & not always felt. Giving false impressions to the world of something that isn't real. Setting expectations in a society that is already having a difficult time accepting new age relationships. Doing things for an image and not for actual feelings felt...

So my real question is... who's obsessed with who?

xoxo
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