Relationship Experts...

We all know them... those people that have been in 1.5 whole relationships in their lives, and somehow they know the answers to all your issues. 

Those people who assume that once they find the right person or just because they have found the "right person" (using the term loosely), they assume they miraculously started doing something right. Or that they somehow have the answers and key to success ::dj khaled voice:: . 

How a simple conversation among friends, has now turned into a judge-y motherly advice column. Simply because it happen to work out for them, NOW. So they want to share the knowledge, that they have somehow obtained from finding someone. 

Mostly forgetting you were there through it all, or most of it... and the reality of most situations is, some shit just so happens to work out...and others don't. It's rarely anything anyone did differently, it's a lot to do with chance & luck... & for lack of a better word...Fate. Rarely ever  anything anyone did too differently. Given, the people you choose has some say in how things will turn out, but once feelings are involved, it doesn't matter what type of person someone is, things will adjust to work out, if they are meant to. 

As much advice as we all like to give about dating, and relationships. The reality is, we can't predict human connection. We have no say in how things are going to really turn out. We don't know when we'll meet the right person or if we'll be ready when we do. We are constantly made to assume that our actions before meeting someone has an effect with what happens after meeting someone. When it's solely how you are in THAT relationship that effects THAT relationship...

BUT, look a me giving relationship advice. 

We all do it, we share based on our experiences, assuming that something we'll say will trigger a thought to someone else. But when it comes to life experiences you really can't exchange them and expect anyone to truly genuinely learn from it or get anything from it....because no two situations are ever alike, and all our stories were meant to be different. 

so let us all be different... & God Bless.

xoxo

signs the girl that isn't an expert.