"Woe is me"

It's human nature to complain. It's natural to sometimes drown in life happenings...

BUT

There's absolutely levels to that ish.

I've been known to be a bit dramatic myself and an over reactor of sorts, I dwell in my life occurrences, but I soon enough get over it, as if it never happened (meaning it probably wasn't that serious to begin with, but when is it ever?). 

I cross the bridge, put on my big girl panties and move on.

Some folks though...

Like to swim in the deep oceans of self pity, so long that they eventually tire out & drown.

I am no one to judge any-ones situation, & I can definitely not judge the strength of someone else heart. Truth is, we all have different pain tolerance, physically & emotionally. So what may hurt for one person, may not for another. 

But again... REALLY? That serious? 

Sometimes I want to shake people up and remind them that the world is filled with sooo much grief and sadness. That counting blessings truly does make you shut up the second you feel sad about something as insignificant as your long term boyfriend cheating. 

YES, it's sad & it hurts. 

"But did you die?"

That's how I choose to see situations now, if I'm still walking, breathing, thinking & communicating after it. It probably wasn't that life altering.

At least not enough to keep you down for long. 

AGAIN... 

I can not judge a persons heart. 

I can only tell you the things I feel. 

& what I feel at the moment is that I'm quite blessed...

&...

It's never that serious...

So I need to stop making it that. 

build a bridge eliz :)

xoxo

-Signs the girl leaving the pity party